Healer of Hearts
Mark is a deeply spiritual man who never forces his work on anyone, knowing that for those who are destined to find him, Spirit will always find a way to make this divine moment happen.
Mark’s reputation as an emphatic healer, spiritual guide and most caring man has led to huge demand for his work both in Spain and internationally. Mark bases his work at his studio in Mijas Pueblo, Spain. The studio provides a very peaceful space for people to meet with Mark and the healing energy that floods the room can be felt from the moment you enter.
For almost ten years Mark has used his incredible gifts of healing and connection to Spirit to help countless amounts of people around the world to overcome painful challenges; emotionally, physically and spiritually. Mark feels deeply privileged to be able to share in the healing process of others and he is very humbled by his work – working as a channel for pure energy-healing.
A natural empath and fondly referred to as the ‘healer of hearts,’ Mark has the ability to almost instantly connect with anyone who walks into his presence. His psychic and spiritual healing abilities enable Mark to provide information to those who seek his help; assisting people to clear away painful issues, understand the source of their pain, and through pure energy healing, to unblock this pain trapped as negative energy within.
(Extract taken from his website…for more on him visit his site at http://www.markbajerski.com).
I spent a beautiful afternoon up in Mijas Pueblo, where Mark’s studio is located, and experienced a reading and healing session in one. I must say it truly was an indescribable experience. Following that afternoon, I came away feeling much more at peace with myself. Highly recommend a visit to everyone and I promise that you won’t be disappointed.
Thanks so much to Mark for taking time out of his busy schedule to spend the afternoon with me up there, and doing this interview for TSM; it’s truly a great honour to have him in the magazine.
Jessica: Tell us a little bit about your background as a child and family.
Mark: I was born in West Yorkshire, a place called Huddersfield. My Father was a second lieutenant in the Polish army in charge of a hundred tanks, so what he’d seen and been through must have been something horrific. My Mother was a loving, Italian lady and they met in the war. She wanted to be an opera singer, but unfortunately, she had a throat operation; something happened and she could never sing like she wanted to. Bless her. I was brought up with a loving Mother, and a Father who was basically the demons of the war; his Father and his Father were very, very hard. So, he was a very abusive man to us all. I was one of the luckiest ones out of the family because of being the youngest at seven years old. My Dad was very angry with all of us, but think I didn’t get it as hard as the rest.
I was just a young lad with Dyslexia and Dyspraxia, which was quite difficult back in those days because nobody actually acknowledged it. So, I was kind of like the school idiot and was often sent outside in the middle of the playground. And a lad that used to be at Headmaster’s ready for a strap; called a nobody.
Also had a lot of enthusiasm as a kid and always saw opportunities. So, what I lacked in intellect, I was streetwise and learned to make money very quick. As I grew up I became an Entrepreneur that took me to many places. I was a good and kind kid, never hurt anybody, didn’t fight and didn’t like fighting. In fact, every time I had a fight, I’d cry. I had a soft heart and don’t believe in fighting or war. I believe in love and believe people should be happy living a happy life.
Jessica: How did you become an Accidental Psychic ?
Mark: That happened eight years ago. Having the stress of five businesses in the UK, we decided one day on a flimb that we should move to Spain and sounded like a great idea; that’s basically what we did. Had a look around, went all over for just a couple days to see where we’d like to live – that’s how crazy it was, and came up to this mountain. As soon as we drove up this mountain, we just knew it was it – we did as it just all made sense, didn’t know why but we knew this would be it. We tried looking everywhere else, up and down the coast, but knew this was the place.
Once we got here everything started to unfold. Unfolding means that I started to find myself and realize who I was; it was a hard and difficult path, but the right kinds of people always come into your life when you need them. That’s my belief anyway. The right people came into my life to show me who I was. Basically, they were telling me what I was doing, and giving me the answers to everything that I was seen and doing. So, it kind of started like that really; very, very coincidental with synchronicity playing a great part. Still here today, eight years on, bewildered and astounded by what has happened in such a short period of time.
Jessica: What is special about this mountain?
Mark: There’s an energy up here that can’t be described, you can only sit here and feel it. And the energy for me is the word peace, it brings complete peace; I don’t have to think about or worry about anything. I just have to sit here and know where I am is exactly where I’m meant to be. And it just feels like I’m at home, so there’s no conflict in this mountain, it just feels natural. So, everything I feel here is with Mother Nature – listen to the birds, the silence and feel the energy of healing. I just feel healed here. Every time I leave here, I can’t wait to get back. I’m blessed to live here, I really am.
Encourage many people from all over the world to get yourself up here, and come and feel this energy. If you come up and feel this energy, it’s a good start, so when you leave here you know what kind of energy you like to live with and hold on to. So, it’s a great foundation for you to think that’s what I want. So, you leave here and hopefully hold onto that feeling, and try and create it wherever you are. I’m not asking everyone to come and live here, but maybe just experience it to realize there is more to life than just eating, sleeping and working.
Jessica: How do you prepare for healing/reading sessions?
Mark: I meditate most mornings. I ask everybody in the Spirit world to come and help. I believe that everybody who comes to me is brought to me for a reason, I don’t question that reason, I don’t need to know why. Just need to know I’m there, and get on and do my work within that morning.
I think the most important thing for my work is that I’ve got to be the happiest I can be, or else I won’t do it. If my wife’s had a go at me the night before because I left socks lying around and she’s doing my head in, I feel bad for it. I won’t work because I take that energy with me and that energy isn’t good. If I’m poorly, if I don’t feel well, or if I feel physically ill I won’t do my work. So, what I’m trying to say is that I have to work very hard to be as happy as I can be, to be able to do my work. Therefore, there is no negative influence when I’m doing a reading or healing with you. Whether it upsets customer or not, I would rather them walk away thinking he didn’t see me and I’m not happy with him, than them coming and doing a session with me, and then walking away saying that was terrible. Choose wisely and listen to your heart, not your head sometimes.
I certainly don’t do it for money cause if I did wouldn’t be doing this job. I made ten times as much money a week with my other businesses than what I’m doing. I’m happier with what little I have now than the money. So, I know that life isn’t all about money now, whereas before all I thought was being a business man and Entrepreneur; it doesn’t play any part in my life now.
Jessica: What do you work with in healing sessions? What is special about working with crystals?
Mark: One form of Meteorite crystal was blessed to our world fifty million years ago, which are excellent for working with. In each crystal, it calls information or memory. When working with a crystal and I’m working on a certain energy, for instance, if I’m helping somebody who has just lost a child and I’m helping heal them. In that session I’m working with a crystal at the same time, and the memory of the energy of healing that person for that specific issue is then implanted or put into the crystal. Then when somebody else takes that crystal, if they have an issue of maybe a loss of a child, that crystal will help them because of the energy within that. So, I love working with crystals. Once one has been charged, when it’s ready, you know you can give that crystal to somebody and it will work magic. So, crystals are amazing. I tell people to wear a crystal. Normally, what happens with crystals is they call you, so if you need one, eventually one will find you. That’s one of the things I work with.
I work with oils, which are many, many different types of oils placed together in a big jar. Essential oils mixed together, and I add crystals to that, and then I place my hands over that jar. I have three jars now, and basically put energy into it, and then I give these oils to people to take with them after they’ve had a session. It helps open them up a lot more and helps heal them with certain situations. A lot of it is very specific, but very natural.
Spirit is the other person that I work with; I work with our Spirit world, people who are by our side who help us and they show us signs. My room is filled with signs – there’s pictures, all sorts. Within that room I can open my eyes and do a healing session, and be focused on a certain subject matter, and then I’ll know that’s where I need to go and heal. So, Spirit talks to you, speaks to you through cards, they whisper to you, you’ll have a feeling or an inclination that something feels right that needs to be done with a person. You’ll feel maybe a bit of negativity, or you may be focused on a leg or heart, you need to go to the heart. Just generally nudges us in the right direction.
So, with you, had a lot of focus on your head, so there was a lot of work going on in your head to try and bring a bit more peace. I found for you, you were finding it hard to find that peace and that balance. So, Spirit knows what they are doing, and they’re basically burning away all the negativity that is stored in the mind, which we all store – unresolved files I call them. We go through a situation and we don’t really know what happened there, but we store it and hold onto it. These files become more, and more, and more, and eventually your head feels as if it’s going to explode. A really good healer can place the hands over it and burn a lot of that away. So, you can just have a glimpse or feeling of peace, or you feel a bit more relaxed. That’s energy; it’s nothing mind-blowing, but it is something that just brings a little bit of balance to our hectic life, and worries that we all have.
Jessica: What are your thoughts on Skeptics?
Mark: You know now it never seems to be an issue. There was a time when I first started. I remember one time this guy came up with his son, and they were sat in my reading room. And the big guy was looking at me across the reading room, and the young son, who was about twenty was sat opposite. When I finished the reading he smiled at me; turned to this man, who was his father, and the father looked at me. He said to me, “well, I’ve gotta say that you got that about 93% accurate. I don’t know how you did it, but very interesting.” So, I looked at the lad, and the lad looked at me and says, “my dad is a scientist.”
All that time I was thinking, you know what I do want to tell the world that this works, I do want to say to the world that a healer is good for children, that meditation is good for children, that we can see and help people that is beyond the mind. And now eight years on, I’m not interested in television; I turn that work down all the time. I’m not really interested in being famous anymore, which at one time I thought I’d like to be. Spending less and less time doing anything to do with media work really. I don’t mind doing radio because it’s in the moment, and it’s all there – uncut and unedited. We need to get our message out there, of course; but you know what for me now, I believe that the universe brings the right people and it doesn’t matter what anybody else thinks. Here’s a man who sits in this beautiful place – eight years ago if you would have said to me that I’d be reading people’s futures, I would have said you’re a nutter, that they’re a bunch of crazy loonies, you know.
You know when somebody is a skeptic, I can look at them, and say that was me eight years ago. So, who am I to judge. I don’t judge people anymore, I’m past that, I accept people for whatever levels we are on in this journey. I’ve seen people who have been skeptics; sat with me with their legs and arms folded, and then when I finished would say (in this case with an Irish), “well, you know I was a skeptic, but actually you’ve opened my eyes.” I thought…you know Spirit is pretty good at that; when the time is right, at one stage or another, you’ll say that it’s really coincidental, or omg, I don’t know what happened there, or how that happened. Or I was in a car accident and should be dead now, but I was protected and do believe there’s something.
You know I’ll tell you something very special now. One thing I’ve learned about this is you’ll never ever prove life after death, it’s not meant to be proven. You will never, ever, ever encounter an Angel and film it on camera. You will never take a picture that can be proven because it’s not meant to be proven. This world is to be lived, and the one thing we need to do is have faith, to believe in something. And if you believe, that’s the key. That is everything to me, you will not take away the one pure thing that is left in this world that everybody tries to prove. There is no proof within it, there never will be, but to me there is faith. I have my faith and believe with all my heart, nobody will ever take that away. When people say I’m a medium and I’m here to prove that there is life after death, that’s great, but I don’t need to prove that. That’s not why I’m here. I’m here to help people who are brought to me, so I can make them feel better. That’s it; I want to make them feel happy, I want them to walk out of that door and live the happiest life that can be, so proof doesn’t mean anything to me anymore.
If you are meant to feel the power of Spirit, if you are meant to understand that there’s more to life than eating, drinking, working, etc., you will one day and that time is what we call the divine moment. So, it’s not for me to try and prove spirituality, it is just to be here for the people who are drawn to me in the right moment.
Jessica: How did you get the name ‘Healer of Hearts’?
Mark: That was given to me by, I think, Arlene Cashman. A few people have said it, it’s like the accidental psychic, a few people have called me that. I don’t sort of call myself any of these, it’s just what people call me. I love that, ‘Healer of Hearts.’ I think it may sound a bit egoistic, but I’m a healer and I like to heal your heart. So, ‘Healer of Hearts,’ and there’s loads of us. Hey, I’m not the only one, there’s thousands of ‘Healer of Hearts’ out there. You know if I’m going to be categorized and put into a box, that’s the box I like – not psychic or medium. I like ‘Healer of Hearts,’ that’s beautiful.
Jessica: What is the inspiration behind the book Diary of An Accidental Psychic?
Mark: Well, it isn’t to prove that there is life after death. It’s a really good question you’re asking because there’s a lot of inspiration in the book. It’s to try and help people, and that’s all I want. Within the book, there’s a lot of true stories; in fact, the book is about true stories of what’s happened to me with my clients. And in the stories there are amazing messages and these messages really help people. So, it’s not exactly inspiration of me writing, what really happened was the Universe had plans for me. Those plans were for me to meet certain people; to go through and experience what I went through, so then somebody can come along and say, “I want to help you write this book.” Then we write down everything that’s happened, and then that book then gets given to the right people to help in the right moment. Now isn’t that absolutely amazing?! How powerful is that?
I never envisioned in my mind that a guy, who’s got Dyslexia and Dyspraxia, would ever write a book. In fact, I didn’t write it. It was just a story; I gave the messages to a lady who wrote it all down. She was a Ghostwriter, put it altogether and it’s out there. It’s not my story; it’s the Universe, Spirits, and Mother Nature. It’s their story and what happens is what they do, not what I do.So, to say that we’re all one, is a better analysis than saying it’s my story. It’s our story, it’s what happens to us everyday, and a lot of people can connect to a lot of those stories.
Jessica: Tell us about the spiritual workshops.
Mark: Spiritual workshops are basically when people are ready to experience something more than just a reading or a healing. They want to actually feel how it works, and what they can do to become a healer, a reader, or whatever it may be they want to do along their journey. So, they come and experience the energy in the room, which is very healing for a full day. Then basically, listen to what I’ve got to say and what I say is what I’ve learned. So, I’m not really a teacher. I’m just sharing everything that I’ve learned; so all the little secrets, all the things I’ve picked up, the way I try and communicate, and try and balance myself to live. And all the right things that I think are pure. Then they continue on their journey. Touch wood, up til now we’ve had quite a few people who have come and progressed, and are really flying. One lady in Rome is doing absolutely amazing, and she is one of the best healers in Rome.
A message from Mark for all friends (NB: He likes to call all supporters his friends):
Just be aware that there is always going to be times when we feel down – Always. If you’re happy everyday, I’d be sending you to the doctors and be worried. So, we do our best to accept the days when we’re not feeling good and when there is negativity around us. The best way to handle that is get yourself out there, go into Mother Nature, go to the sea and just breathe. Just be with yourself, that is the best way to heal.